Do mothers have this confusion: they want to improve relationship between parents and children, but child does not want to talk to us or listen to us, what should we do?
What should I do? I used to worry about this problem too, I wanted a good relationship with my daughter, but she didn’t talk to me at all
Why is my daughter ignoring me? ——
Don't trust me? Do you feel that you do not have a common language with me? What is she interested in talking about?
Does way I talk make her feel uncomfortable? If she says something I don't like, will I object or interrupt her?
What hell does my child like? Can I support and accept her preferences?
With these questions, I'm trying to make friends with my daughter——
I asked my daughter to help me register a game account, and we played together (Guangyu, Wangwang, Animal Restaurant...) I asked her to help me pass levels that I couldn't pass, and I also asked my daughter tips for clearing levels.
Daughter bought ear piercing tools herself. I asked my daughter to pierce my ears. I want to know what kind of experience it is. We pierce ears together, buy earrings together online, and exchange each other to wear. [Send yourself a flower]
My daughter loves spicy strips, but I used to really dislike them and considered them unhealthy. Now it's deliciousI don't like to eat in roadside stalls and I'm not used to eating on go. Now you can buy two kebab skewers, and then "clink glasses" and eat on go. It's so delicious!
My daughter loves cycling, at first I thought cycling was boring and I didn't know what to ride. Now we drive more than ten kilometers almost every day. I have also discovered so many benefits of cycling.
The daughter sometimes writes some essays and such, so I "beg" to show me and take sofa to read for first time, and even boast that I have a daughter who is star of Wenqu < i>
My daughter dresses well. I always ask her opinion when I buy clothes. If she says she looks good, I will buy her. If she says no, I won't. Do you think this mother is very independent?
My daughter loves to read about desserts on Xiaohongshu, so I bought an oven, various equipment and ingredients. I feel happy because I can eat dim sum made by my daughter. Of course, I always clean up last and I clean up kitchen
I remember when my daughter first took me to comic book exhibition, I was like Grandma Liu, who had just entered Grand View Garden, feeling that world was unbelievable. Went there a few times later. Everywhere in her room you can see all kinds of peripherals, figurines and clothes.
My daughter told me about her classmates and friends, I do not judge their correctness andirregularity, because I know that my views do not keep up with their rhythm. If I disagree, day will die, I'm just expressing curiosity! I wonder how they all think and see things that way now. My daughter sometimes laughs at me for being vulgar, but that doesn't stop me from talking!
My daughter sometimes "hides" in room to chat. I don't ask her who she's chatting with, what topics they talk about, and I don't go eavesdrop on door because I know that at their age, peer relationships will be more important than peer relationships. They have their secrets, just like we did when we were teenagers.
Two days ago my daughter said she would dye her hair gray or pink during summer holidays. I asked her: are anime characters going to travel to reality? The daughter laughed. "I just want to try!" Well, let's just try, no big deal. And she said she would paint it back when school started in September.
My daughter told me that she was in love with a netizen, but they already broke up, she said that some boys like her and it's good for them to be friends. confessed to her, but she refused. Then my friend had nothing to do, she said that she liked girls and maybe later they would bring my daughter to me. It's good for me to say I'm listening to all this and thank my daughter for sharing her story with me. ......
Initially, I wanted to get into "inside of enemy" and get to know myself and enemy. Later I learned that hitting "inside enemy" was so intense and colorful