Maybe she's really old, or her daughter has grown up. After watching drama "Sea in a Dream", I saw young people in drama fall in love, and even thought what to do if it was my daughter. To guide her, our look at love in 70s, I'm afraid it will be difficult for children born after 00
The pursuit of drama is replaced, appearance of Xiao Chunsheng and He Hongling's first love is so handsome, shy, ignorant, charming, and heart beats faster; a gentle look and a touching word - everything.
So I thought, if one day my daughter suddenly said that she was in love, and then said what a wonderful boy. But as far as my mother is concerned, I always feel that this child is not good enough for my daughter, what should I do? Just like Mother Hongling looked at Xiao Chunsheng, although it was good, it didn't fit. Do you want to conduct a great moral education? Or own experience to convince children? However, how can a child in love listen to your whining.
Love is so beautiful, let's not deprive children of experience
We are all experienced, maybe some people and some things do not fit at first glance, so we will not get together. Just like Xiao Chunsheng and He Hongling, although their first love is beautiful, their outlook on life and values are too different, so breakup is also doomed. He Hongling is enthusiastic and bright, but due to influence of her family environment, she is very shy and sober. Between love and interests, she knows what she wants. While her future was getting better and better, Xiao Chunsheng faced a situation where she could not stand up due to her wound on battlefield, so she resolutely gave up on love and chose another better path.
In terms of chasing dramas, He Hongling is too realistic. When watching dramas, almost all presentations consist of accusations about role of He Hongling, hatred and dislike. Having said that, if He Hongling was her own child facing such a situation and making such a choice, would everyone still condemn her for being "heartless"? Not sure, right?
He Hongling and Ye Guohua, although their families are very different, they are really same people. In face of interests, love and brotherhood must give way, and the two smoothly come together in their own interests. . Will such a marriage be happy?
And some people can be doomed from start. I especially like two characters Xiao Chunsheng and Tong Xiaomei in play. Through bookmark, a romantic love story begins quietly.
Tong Xiaomei, simple and persistent, gentle and withdrawn, firm and generous, she silently loves Xiao Chunsheng and silently pays for him. Her love, like a stream, finally converges into a raging river.
Her end is doomed to happiness. This is enviable love. However, when I saw Xiaomei's parents stand from their parents' point of view, they also used good words to convince and criticize Xiaomei's behavior. "I think I really understand Xiaomei's parents. In beginning, I wanted to introduce Xiaomei to Ye Guohua. It really was a good marriage. They are both high-ranking families, the second generation of officials. What parent doesn't want his children to have such a life. Fortunately , Xiaomei is a girl with her own opinion, and she knows what she wants: “My life is my own decision.”
We all hope that our lovers will eventually get married, and we also hope that our children will have such a wonderful love and marriage.
Watching this drama gave me another feeling: such an unequal love, it's hard to have a good ending. We are talking about Ye Fan and Chen Hongjun, their love is simply unequal. Ye Fang's family background, intelligence and courage are much higher than Chen Hongjun's. She is calm, intelligent and sober in world. To get rid of marriage arranged by her parents, she puts her chastity and reputation on line. It was because because of this, Chen Hongjun could not get rid of everyone's criticism for rest of his life. In their love, Chen Hongjun has almost no right to speak. How can a love like this last?
Again, no matter what kind of love it is, as long as I experience it, love it strongly and with all my heart, I think it is beautiful and worth it. Just like Xiao Chunsheng and Tong Xiaomei, Ye Guohua and He Hongling, Ye Fang and Chen Hongjun in play, I think that their first love is, in fact, beautiful and precious in life.
In fact, no one can predict future, just as no one can guarantee who will love whom all his life. If you want to live a good life, you need more management and improvement, and some seemingly detours and uphill roads may not be so bad.
Life is a journey filled with constant experience. I think that if my daughter reaches age of falling in love, I will encourage her to experience and enjoy love. There must be stormy love in life.