Last night, I wanted to get things done early, let kids wash up and rest early, and prepare for tonight's high school entrance exam.
The result was almost eleven o'clock. The daughter suddenly became depressed and looked very upset. For a second, I felt like my heart sank. Fortunately, constant awareness allows me to grasp this. I soon calmed down.
"Mom, I'll go out for a while, you'll see me off!"
"Where are you going? Downstairs for dinner?"
"No, it's a bit far, it could take an hour!"
"Can you tell me where to go! What to do?"
"I won't say it because you don't agree with it! You will just grumble."
"In that case, baby, mom may not support this action. Firstly, it's late, and I'm returning after twelve o'clock. Besides, it's already late in evening, and almost all shops on street are closed. I think that security issues should also be considered.”
The daughter was very angry and more and more excited: “You whined so much, and it dragged on for several minutes. Don't you adults have a sense of ritual and passion, and don't you "Don't let kids have a sense of ritual and impulsiveness, it's very boring!" My daughter was screaming at me.
"Then can you tell me exactly what you want to do and where to go?" I wondered if this was just a whim. This is my judgement! It has complaints)
"I won't tell you," daughter said stubbornly.
"If you don't say that, mom really can't help you! Or we can do what you said after exam tomorrow, okay?" I said.
"Tomorrow will be pointless!" my daughter said bitterly.
Then she didn't say anything else.
Seeing this situation, I also went to do my own thing.
I believe that my daughter can handle her emotions well, and I also believe that she should be aware of importance of tomorrow's high school entrance exam. I thought so. So I can safely wait.
About half past ten, my daughter went to wash her face. When I washed my face, I saw that her mood had calmed considerably.
"Mom, I want to go to prep school in junior high school. I'm going to take high school entrance exam tomorrow. I want to go and watch it before high school entrance exam. I used to think I stayed there. I I couldn't pass high school entrance exam.I couldn't finish it.However, now I also came here, although there are more detours compared to them, but I finally reached end of my life in high school, and I will have a new starting point dot." My daughter was combing her hair while talking slowly to me.
"You want to say goodbye, say goodbye to past, but everything brought you there, right?" Hearing what child said, I suddenly felt sorry for my daughter, and I was very grateful to her. I walked over and hugged baby tightly.
"Listen, maybe this will work? Today alreadytoo late. Let's hit road early tomorrow morning, first there, and then to test center. Thank you for sharing your opinion with mom!"
"I think so too. Then wake me up early tomorrow morning and accompany me to have a look first."
This case is so well resolved. My daughter's mood has completely returned to normal. It was already more than twelve, wishing each other good night, we went to bed.
After two in morning, I woke up again and saw that my daughter was still awake and still playing with her mobile phone! !
"Baby, what time is it? Am I sleeping? I am in a daze," I greeted my daughter in a daze.
"Mom, ten past three"
"Oh ok, got it, thanks babe. I'm too sleepy, I need to go to bed."
Then I saw my daughter put down her phone and finally quickly fell asleep.
At 6:50 am, I woke my daughter up according to agreed time, and she quickly got up. We had breakfast and went straight to original prep school. I thought my daughter would be a few minutes late, but in fact she looked in and stopped for less than half a minute. "Mom, okay, now let's go to exam."
We arrived at test center on time.
"Mom, wish me luck"
"Good luck baby, I wish baby an easy exam! Mom will always be waiting for you outside!"
My daughter then walked up to her class, waved her back at me, and got in line to wait for security to enter premises in an orderly manner!
At moment, at 17:30, today's exam is coming to an end. I'm waiting outside exam room for my daughter to come out. As agreed, I prepared a cup of decompression tea with milk for her. .