Today there is a very interesting thing, I think it should be written down.
In afternoon, I took Mengchen to place where colorful birds learn to draw. Before leaving, I peeled an apple for her, put a stick in it, and asked her to hold it before eating so as not to fall to ground.
On way, little girl happily ate, and I told her: “Baby, it doesn’t matter if you finish your meal or not, by time you get to school gate, you won’t be able to eat anymore, because teacher won’t let you bring food. We should focus on painting, dad is waiting for you to give me a big surprise!" Mengchen nodded (she's not so stubborn anymore)
Unexpectedly, after a while, she suddenly stopped while eating and carefully organized sentences that she could not fully understand: "If I get to colorful bird, I won't eat it all. I'll share my apples." with dad, and next time dad will buy me milk tablets! If I eat them all, dad can't buy them for me, okay?"
I didn't quite understand what she said first time. I asked her to think, and then I spoke a second time. After child finished sentence, it was mostly above words.
After I listened to this, I felt this guy was so funny and smart because I used stuff like this to train her stamina before (looks like food, don't buy next time, don't eat enough, in next time I did not expect that she would forcefully take up eating apples in order to get milk tablets this time, and she did not have a feeling of disobedience, and after carefully analyzing first half of this sentence, she first said: that I will share with my parents, and said that next time I will buy her milk tablets. This guy will still make people happy. I know that I will let adults know that she is a reasonable and good child. adults are happy, it will be easy to talk about most important things. (Now it seems that my point vision is still incorrect, child also affects me)
Although her ability to organize speech is not so obvious, she can already express what she wants to say.
When we arrived at our destination, little girl really obeyed her own rules and gave me remaining apple. I said why there had just been a quick "chi-chi" sound in car. time and satisfy her greedy mouth as much as possible, but she just didn’t feel like eating. She ate all apples, leaving a little on purpose, because she knew in her heart: you won’t eat them all if there is a small piece left, next time dad will buy me milk tablets.
A child's thinking ability is too strong now, he knows how to think about things, and with my help he can set rules for himself, understand patience and get more rewards... 3 and a half years, I'm surprised and glad that children may have such an understanding...